Wednesday, 20 May 2015

A Rumour on starwars and marvel

The Internet rumors are out that Disney may be planning to create Star Wars and Marvel streaming channels. According to Daily Finance , Disney CEO Bob Iger alluded to the potential for online streaming channels via a conference call when asked about Disney launching its own streaming channel. “We have said that with these channels and these brands — ESPN, ABC, Disney, maybe even down the road something related to Star Wars and Marvel — we do have an ability as a company to take product, specifically filmed entertainment, television, movies, directly to consumers,” Iger told reporters. As Daily Finance points out, Disney has spent “billions” acquiring its new collection of “superheroes and sci-fi stars,” and is no stranger to quickly adapting to monetize. They cite Disney’s relationship with Apple’s iTunes (thanks, Steve Jobs!), ESPN on DISH’s Sling TV, and Marvel’s Daredevil on Netflix as key partnerships in Disney’s arsenal as it embraces the digital revolution. Will dedicated Star Wars and Marvel streaming channels be next, making it harder to leave the couch? We shall see.

Is it pity charity or drunken? Then these you must know

Pity sex happens when people have sex with other people because they feel sorry for them. Is it worth the effort? Do people on both sides feel good during such sex? How they feel afterward? And what is the difference between pity sex and "charity sex"? One thing seems certain: Sex is usually more than a simple physical activity; it is often a highly emotional interaction. Pity (or mercy) sex is an experience in which a woman (or a man) is not particularly attracted to someone who is in love with her (or him) and wishes to have sex with her. She sleeps with him because she feels sorry for him. Many people have sex because they think they "should" rather than because they actually want to. This can be a kind of guilt-induced sex. Consider the following description, again by a woman, of her pity-sex experience: "I've been friends with this guy for five years. He is the sweetest guy and I know he would treat me like gold, but I'm just not physically attracted to him. He's not attractive at ALL....After confessing his love to me...I had sex with him...pity sex. I just wanted him to be happy and I do really care about him... "I WISH I NEVER SLEPT WITH HIM." A similar description of a pity sex experience was provided by another woman: "I would say my sex drive is about 0 right now. Last night we had sex. I couldn't wait for it to be over. Even kissing made me nauseous." We should distinguish here between pity sex and charity sex . Like a one-night stand, pity sex is an isolated occurrence; but unlike a one- night stand, pity sex has an altruistic element intended to give pleasure to the other person but not necessarily the one who pities—after all, pity is not a pleasant emotion. In charity sex, you love your partner, and while you don't feel like having sex at that moment, you do it anyway. Charity sex is a very common part of an ongoing relationship that has lasted several years, and is in fact intended to enhance the relationship. Charity sex can be seen as a kind of investment in the relationship. Like other investments, you might not see the benefits at the moment, but you increase the prospects of reaping these benefits later on. Charity sex may not be enjoyable, but it typically does not involve suffering. It occurs during an ongoing intimate relationship and is a superficial, isolated activity that, as in pity sex, may be at odds with the current relationship between the two partners. It seems that while in pity sex it is better to receive than to give (the pitter is in the worse situation), in charity sex it is better to give than to receive (the one who gives is in a better situation). In both scenarios, sex is intended to meet the needs of another person, but in charity sex it takes place in a more profound and enduring relationship. In pity sex, the pitying partner does not want to have sex with the one she (or he) pities, as she (or he) is not physically attracted to him (or her). In charity sex, you do find your partner attractive and generally enjoy having sex with him or her, but at this specific time you do not feel like having sex; you consent because you believe your partner wishes it or will benefit from it because, for instance, he is feeling somewhat low and the moment and sex will boost his mood. It seems that as time goes by, people (mainly women, seemingly) become less willing to have charity sex on a permanent basis. Faking an orgasm—that is, pretending to derive pleasure to make your partner feel good—is somewhat similar to pity sex. However, faking an orgasm is more limited in scope, as it involves merely one aspect of the sexual act, while the rest of the experience can be enjoyable. In pity sex, the lack of enjoyment is more pronounced, and involves the entire activity—consequently, unlike faking an orgasm, pity sex can be entirely unpleasant for the pitying partner. Other Scenarios Drunken sex is another type of sex that in normal circumstances would not be desirable, but the difference here is that whereas in pity sex the pitying person does not enjoy the sexual activity, in drunken sex he or she might. The conflict in pity sex is between what you do not want and what the other person does want; in drunken sex, the conflict is between what you would not want in normal circumstances and what you want when you are intoxicated . In the case of expedient sex , people may have sex with someone, not out of love or pity, but in order to derive some material benefit, such as money or status. The classic scenario would be an attractive young woman and a much older, wealthier man. In this case, the altruistic element is replaced by the element of greed. In the case of sexual friendship (or "friends with benefits"), where the connection between the two partners is based on sex and perhaps casual friendship, mutual pleasure can be derived. But since such a relationship does not involve love, it is more superficial and less meaningful. Sometimes, however, people greatly enjoy superficial experiences, particularly when they do not impose much obligation on either side. In analyzing the attitudes in the above scenarios, we should discern the attitudes before, during, and after sex. In the optimal circumstances prevailing in genuine love, the three attitudes are very positive: the person is pleasantly excited before sex, is joyful during sex, and has a positive, calm mood after it. In drunken sex, a one-night stand, and sometimes extramarital sex, people might enjoy themselves before and during sex, but not feel good about it afterward. This is the "morning- after effect." Others might feel bad both before and after illicit sex, but enjoy the sex itself. In pity sex, however, the bad feeling often prevails throughout—before, during, and after sex. It is obvious that the best situation in which to have sex is that of partners feeling genuine love in which a pleasurable mood predominates before, during, and after sex. But not everyone has the privilege to enjoy such love. Does this mean that those who don't should not have sex? It certainly does not—not having everything does not mean that you are not entitled to have something . Pity sex seems to be the worst situation, as the pitying people do not enjoy themselves before, during, or after sex. However, from a moral viewpoint, pity sex has some value in providing sexual enjoyment to the person deprived of it. The problem in this respect is that at the end of the day, the pitying partner is likely to feel miserable about his or her altruistic, but ultimately fake sexual pleasure. To sum up: In all these cases, various degrees of enjoyment are derived before, during, and after the sexual activity. There are only a few circumstances—genuine love being the most prevalent—when there is profound satisfaction all along, and other circumstances when there is profound dissatisfaction all along (as for the pitier in pity sex). Psychological dilemmas are scarcely present in these two circumstances; such dilemmas typically arise when satisfaction and suffering are mixed. In any case, sex is very rarely a simple physical act. It is typically loaded with many emotional attitudes that involve issues beyond the present moment. In such circumstances, pity sex, charity sex, expedient sex, and faked orgasms become more common. The above considerations can be encapsulated in the following statement that a lover might express: "Darling, I desire you so much that I am ready to have sex with you, even if you might consider it pity sex, charity sex, drunken sex, or merely a one-night stand. Nevertheless, I would much prefer to have dinner with you at a fine restaurant, while we hold hands and rub our legs together."

Tuesday, 19 May 2015

Are they a fake?




Millions of condoms are seized every year, many being produced in illegal factories in China. In 23rd April 2015, fake Durex branded condoms which may have serious flaws such as holes in the latex, have been recalled after they were sold at a discount on Groupon Australia. These condoms do not either prevent pregnancy nor do they prevent you from contracting STDs. These fake condoms were sold between 12th March and 10th April this year meaning many of the condoms may have already been used by consumers. In 2005, a fake condom recall hit the UK and Ireland, with the discovery that thousands of fake condoms thought to have been produced in China, were being sold in pharmacies and shops. Dr. Rebecca Findlay said “You should only use condoms with the CE marking to show they meet European Standards. Otherwise they will not protect you against STIs and pregnancy.” She added: “If cost is an issue, free condoms are available from your local contraceptive clinic.”The fake condoms, in addition to being of an inferior quality, the condoms are said to contain an offensive smell. The fake condoms are reportedly sold online under well known brands like Durex and Jissbon to Kenyan hotels. They also contain very heavy metal elements which are very harmful to the human body. The easiest way to spot a fake Durex is the writing on the front of the individual wrapper, the real ones have 5 lines of writing while the fake have only three lines. The fake also have a less intense color than that of a genuine product.

One Direction Dedicate Their Billboard Award To ‘Brother Zayn’



The guys from “One Direction” proved that there is no bad blood between themselves and their former member, Zayn Malik.
Namely, during their appearance at the Billboard Awards on Sunday night, the guys paid tribute to their former band-mate as they accepted the Top Group/Duo Billboard award.
Brother Zayn
During their acceptance speech, Liam Payne took the chance to thank their loyal fans, but also to make an honorable mention of their former member.
“This one is for the fans but there is one more person we want to share this with and that’s our brother Zayn,” said Liam.
Not Splitting Up
This was the band’s first red carpet appearance since Zayn revealed he was leaving the band back in March, and the group also took this opportunity to reassure their fans that they were not splitting up.
The band also promised to release their first studio album without Zayn, and apparently the record is expected as soon as September or October.
“The four of us enjoy every aspect of it. The shows have been great and we are in the studio at the minute and we are looking forward to bringing out a new record and going on more tours and we are really enjoying it,” Niall said to James Corden during their appearance on The Late, Late Show.

Monday, 18 May 2015

7 Things Sex Education Should Teach



1. There’s more to sex than biology
Sex education, as it stands today, is more or less diagram after diagram of the biological ins and outs (and back ins, oh baby!) of human reproductive behavior. It’s a bodily fluid road map, a glorified anatomy class, with an “Oh yeah, and use protection!” tacked on for good measure.
Don’t get me wrong, some of this information is useful. We do need to know how infections occur, how pregnancy works, and, of course, where to stick it in. But never in the heat of passion have I ever thought about his vas deferens or the quality of my uterine lining. It just never seems that relevant in the moment.
Humans are uniquely sexual creatures. We screw each other far more often and in far more elaborate ways than pretty much every other species on the planet.
That’s because for humans sexual activity is more than a mere biological urge, it has psychological significance and social meaning. We screw for pleasure. We screw for recreation. We screw for passion. We screw for revenge. We screw nice people and mean people, friends and enemies, sexy people and ugly people. We screw because we’re happy and because we’re sad. We screw because we’re bored. We screw because we feel alone. We screw because we’re in love.
And yes, we screw to make babies, too. Although in the developed world, that’s rarely the primary motivation these days. So why is that all sex education focuses on?
Sex ed should account for the recreational, social and emotional reasons for sex and their consequences. It should discuss the interpersonal meaning of intercourse, setting clear expectations and boundaries, communicating desires, dealing with feelings of shame and awkwardness, and of course, being responsible about protection and privacy.
Sex can be amazing. Some of the best moments of one’s life can happen engorged in someone else. So let’s talk about it.
This sounds so obvious when you say it. Yet no one seems to say it.
2. How to Respect personal boundaries

I have been observing our community and i have realized just how much their is sexual shame that goes on in our culture and how it causes men and women to hide their intentions and desires from one another, which then leads to all sorts of communication breakdowns (or worse) later on in the interaction.
A huge component of this is consent. Consent in sexual situations is usually taught as, “If a woman says no, it means no.” That’s nice, but it completely glosses over the complexity of the issue. It continues to frame sex in a “Women get to decide, you have to convince them,” perspective. This reinforces the perception that men must somehow prove themselves to women and women must somehow be “won over” by a man to have sex with him.
This isn’t consent, it’s mutually reinforced manipulation.
(For deeper explanation, check out: How Disney Ruined Sex for Everybody)
Sexual intentions and desires should be stated clearly from the get-go by both parties. And I don’t just mean, “I want to have sex with you,” but every step of the way. “I’m attracted to you, I want to go out with you,” “I want to go home with you,” and so on. Kids should be taught that there’s nothing shameful about saying “yes” or “no” and that they should not be ashamed nor shame someone else for saying either. This is regardless of gender, orientation or reason.
All personal desires are valid just as all rejections of personal desires by another are valid. Both should be respected. It’s as simple as that.
3. Sex is not a reflection of your value as a person
But to get to this place, sex must be removed from its pedestal as an badge of either honor or shame in our culture. As long as boys are shamed for not succeeding in getting laid and girls are shamed for succeeding in getting laid too often, then boys will continue to have an incentive to manipulate girls into situations where consent is ambiguous and girls will continue to have an incentive to manipulative boys into situations where they feel unworthy or powerless.
Nobody wins in this arrangement. Everybody gets frustrated. People lie. Some people get raped. And it’s no coincidence that sexual violence and divorce are highest in countries where this culture of sexual shame persists. When your value as a human being is being judged based on the sex you’re having or not having or the marriage that you have or don’t have, then it’s easy to feel justified in saying and doing some messed up stuff to people of the opposite gender to get your way.
4. Different sexual orientations are there, either change them if you can or accept them
No-brainer here, but worth repeating for anybody still living in denial.Homosexuality is there and we should accept it. We may not like it but they are our fellow human beings. Whatever your religion, the message is always that we love one another and God never made exceptions on who to love yet He knows all that happens. So who are you to choose your way?
If you can't change them, accept them.
5. How men and women experience sex differently


OK, this is the part of the article where I piss off a bunch of feminists. But there are three things which are true about male/female sexualities:
  1. Men and women have innate differences in how they experience their sexualities.
  2. This should be obvious to anyone who’s ever looked at naked people.
  3. These differences, despite existing, don’t really mean anything.
The truth is that trying to cram an ideology that men and women are exactly the same in all ways down people’s throats is just as fascist and shitty as forcing the ideology of conventional gender roles and stereotypes on everyone as well.
People are different. Men and women are also different. These things are not mutually exclusive.
We know men and women are different. We know this from a wide range of neurological and psychological studies. We know from studying how gays and lesbians interact with one another. We know from primatology and the obvious sexual dimorphism of our species. And we know from the subjective accounts of transsexuals who use hormone replacement treatments.
Sorry to belabor this point, but I always get flamed by a dozen angry people every time I mention this. So this is for them. Men and women differ in some ways and both genders should be treated with equal respect for those differences. (Why do people make this so complicated?)
That in and of itself should be taught in sex ed. But what should also be taught is how sex drives differ between men and women, how women are more sexually fluid in their desires, how men are more physical and visually oriented in arousal, and how, on average (across populations, across cultures, and in female-to-male transsexuals), they usually want to have sex more often and with a wider variety of partners.
There’s nothing inherently right or wrong with these differences. These differences are not a moral justification for unethical behavior. If I’m born with big arms, that doesn’t give me the right to go punch people. If a man is born with a high sex drive, that doesn’t give him a right to force himself on women. But it also doesn’t make him a pervert, horndog, womanizer, monster, or rapist in waiting. Seriously, why is this so complicated?
6.Masturbation is normal but MUST be private.

Masturbation is the self-stimulation of the genitals to achieve sexual arousal and pleasure, usually to the point of orgasm (sexual climax). It is commonly done by touching, stroking, or massaging the penis or clitoris until an orgasm is achieved. Some women also use stimulation of the vagina to masturbate or use "sex toys," such as a vibrator.

While it once was regarded as a perversion and a sign of a mental problem, masturbation now is regarded as a normal, healthy sexual activity that is pleasant, fulfilling, acceptable, and safe. It is a good way to experience sexual pleasure and can be done throughout life.
Masturbation is only considered a problem when it inhibits sexual activity with a partner, is done in public, or causes significant distress to the person. It may cause distress if it is done compulsively or interferes with daily life and activities.
 Masturbation also is a safe sexual alternative for people who wish to avoid pregnancy and the dangers of sexually transmitted diseases. It also is necessary when a man must give a semen sample for infertility testing or for sperm donation. When sexual dysfunction is present in an adult, masturbation may be prescribed by a sex therapist to allow a person to experience an orgasm (often in women) or to delay its arrival (often in men).
7.  Anal sex can be so messed up
Well, people may have different and varying views on this. But am talking on a point of view that you are just a regular teenager(not always at the gym exercising or have money to access adult diapers). I would advice you not to perform anal sex as it may make it impossible for you to hold faeces till you get to the washroom and since it lacks natural lubrication, artificial lubrication may not completely prevent tearing.practicing vaginal sex after anal sex can also lead to vaginal and urinary tract infections.
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